…how could I love anyone? On a physical level this concept is simple: if I can’t take care of myself, my body, how on earth can I do that for another. It baffles me to see doctors and nurses smoking on break, or overweight P.E. teachers sending kids on laps. Just doesn’t make sense. On the other hand, you typically don’t see health conscious parents running around with obese kids. They have passed along their love and respect for their own bodies to the ones they care about “most”.
How can I take care of another, if I myself need taking care of? Pretty simple.
The mental aspect takes a little more self honesty. We as humans have a tendency to see in others what irks us most about ourselves. Even if that’s not the case, whatever judgements you are holding against yourself that keep you from loving who you are won’t stop at introspection. Bottom line is, if you can’t be accepting of your own perfect imperfections, how on earth can you begin to do that for another. And what is love, but acceptance of something for what it is? Letting go of the judgement against yourself frees your mind to do the same for others.
So my challenge to you is to teach others to love themselves by being the example, you will be amazed at the effect it has on those around you, especially the ones you care for most.